Your top paragraph makes a fantastic point. I've seen a lot of screenshots of texts and chat logs on apps posted on Reddit and Twitter meant to embarrass the guy or girl. I think posting video and stuff like that is borderline inhuman. If someone is being genuine they don't deserve to be mocked. I can see if someone is being a creep. But yes, many men are afraid of being humiliated online or through virtual grapevine apps like Snap where word can travel light speed and across schools. Young people have lost a sense of discretion and privacy.